Nakkita, We just moved to the area as well. Although on the opposite end of spectrum. My spouse retired and accepted a position in Chicago. With any move I would advise you to attend all activities invited to ( when the host is reasonably sane of course) or have the option to attend. Sometimes you may not befriend the host, but certainly another guest. You may not be crafty but by attending a craft group you could meet friends.....who lovingly knit you ugly scarves
I dont know what is available there but group exersize classes also worked ( ugh) as well as telling your spouse he is hosting a cookout/poker night etc. with spouses in attendance.
Good luck and remember you can still randomly take online courses at California colleges for in state rates when you feel destitute.