So, the guy that I have been with for 2 years now is confusing the hell out of me.
When we were together for the first time, he was a litte too friendly on facebook with other women...one reason our relationship ended. We got back together the day before he left for basic which was last August. On up until about March, things got bad. We started fighting almost every night and when I picked him up from the airport when he had leave, I was numb. But all of this is besides the point. When he and I got back together, he deactivated his facebook..."out of respect for me" now thsta all well and good until I find out that he has been back on there several times.
Now, we had gotten in an argument on may 16 and he ignored me all day, wouldn't text, call, answer my texts or calls, and when I asked him why the next day, he said he was asleep, and when I told him that he was lying, he really confessed and said that he just didn't want to talk to me....So he lied.
Well a week later he went to a camp where he "doesn't get service" but he was apparently on facebook the day after he had been there (it told me the dates on facebook).
While he was there, he would text me randomly and said "I love you, I miss you, I want to hold you, etc...." Well I haven't gotten to talk to him on the phone in about 2.5 weeks... So I haven't gotten the chance to get explanations and I probably won't get them anyways because that is just how he is..
To top all of this off, sunday is when I found out he was on facebook again and was tagged in a picture of him and another guy drinking margaritas......That was tagged on sunday, this past sunday. Well I called his mom asking when she had talked to him and she said about 15 minutes before I called. She said it was only for a minute, but still...why didhe not call me?
So at this point, I am LIVID! I don't tet or call for the next 2 days, which brings me to today. He texts me and says "hey, I love you, I miss you, xoxoxo, they keep pushing this training back, blah blah" and I am like, why is he telling me all this? Why is he lying....? So I ask him and he claims that he has not been on facebook and then throws the trust thing in my face saying I don't trust him and I don't believe him.. Like I saw the proof on facebook where he had been on...And how can I trust him when he lied to me about BEING ASLEEP!? The simpliest thing he lies about and then expects me to trust him.....If he is going to lie about being asleep, what else will he lie about??
This relationship is just about ridiculous and I have no idea what to do.
I'm sorry this is long, but anty advice will help, please!